The seller's "hat" tells you that your home is way, way better than the others in your price range. You know every penny that has gone into making this home a palace and want it back plus more. Going out and looking at the competition is a great exercise. Take notes. Return to your home, arriving through the front door. Look at the value you can see, not what you know. Listen to your agent and be a seller. Switch hats; now you have the buyer's cap on. Let's go shopping! You have looked online and narrowed down your options by doing a drive-by. Looking above your budget is common because "this home is overpriced, and I won't pay that" buyer syndrome has entered your brain. You know the value and expect sellers to accept and understand your edict. Yesterday I had a call from a longtime client who fell in love with a new listing that he felt was "grossly" overpriced. It was on the market for 3 days. In the private remarks, it states there are 3 offers, one accepted and 2 backups. Over asking price. My client is now convinced his home's value has gone up dramatically and wants to sell.